Become the Best YOU
By Sara Jane
“Life challenges aren’t here to break you. Life’s challenges are here to mould, refine and make you into all you were intended to become”
~ Billy Cox
Firstly, to me, we are all born perfect. Perfect for the life and experiences we have chosen.
Our experiences as a child and our reactions to them, cause us to change, to behave in a manner, that is, in many cases alien to our true nature.
The nature we repress because of comments by others, judgements of others, actions of others.
We hide our true self behind people pleasing or anger and in the process loose ourselves.
It is possible to find your true self
“Trust the wait, Embrace the uncertainty, Enjoy the Beauty of Becoming. When nothing is certain, anything is possible”
~ Mandy Hale
No experience is wasted, every one of them is a gift in its own unique way.
So, embrace where you are right now, embrace the experiences you have had and know that they have served you in ways you may yet come to realise.
Everything is possible and you are possible.
Reconnecting to those aspects of yourself that you rejected, is possible.
“Be the Artist of Your Life, Not the Critic”
~ Bruce Van Horne
There is no judgement to be had of your life so far. You did the best you could with the knowledge you had.
With every new experience you learn more, you grow.
There is light and shade in everybody’s life, let those aspects of you that you have put into the shadows come back into the light and fill your life with colour.
“When you have to start compromising your values & morals… it is time to make changes”
~ Jaki Bent/If Everyone Cares
You are an amazing Being.
Be true to you, to your values, to your feelings, to your choices, to your morals.
Learn to say NO to anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, that doesn’t resonate with you.
“I am thankful for all of those who said no to me. It’s because of them I’m doing it myself”
~ Albert Einstein
No can be a greater gift than Yes can ever be.
It supports you in ways that Yes never can.
It helps you to say Yes to yourself, Yes I can do it.
It is time to let go of what does not serve you, of what stops you from being truly You.
It is time to reconnect with all of you, to Become again the perfect, unique Being you were born to be.
Copyright © Sara Jane 2018
By Sara Jane
Your life is a journey from the day you are conceived into the physical world to the day you leave and return to the Spirit world.
Yes you are Spirit having a physical experience and all the possibilities that that brings with it.
Life is a precious gift, a gift of endless possibilities and experiences.
Every step you take opens you to new opportunities.
Your journey isn’t about following the straight and narrow path; it is about twists and turns, diversions and forks in the road; choices.
All roads and paths have junctions and forks in them, sometimes there are even detours. Life is the same.
It is your journey, the roads and paths you walk should be your choice. By all means listen to others but choose from how each choice makes you feel.
There will be times when you feel like you are climbing a never ending mountain, stop occasionally and enjoy the view there are always plus points.
If you ever feel you have picked the wrong turn or path, see it as a detour.
Yes there will be detours but consider these as bringing you gifts, new possibilities and wisdom that you wouldn’t have had without them ~ there is always a reason.
There will be times when you feel you have hit rock bottom; the advantage here is that you can’t fall any further, pick yourself up, brush yourself off and look for the path out, the path that offers the possibilities to use the wisdom you have gained from your experiences.
You can never take a wrong path and there is no such thing as a backward step, not in the way you interpret the meaning.
Even if you feel you have gone in the wrong direction and need to backtrack, remember the experiences you have had have changed you, you have grown.
Think about a meandering river, its path twists and turns; sometimes it can form a horseshoe shape, appearing to come back on its self.
Just like a motorway, if you find yourself going in the wrong direction, you turn round but you are not travelling the same road and you are seeing things from a different perspective.
Feel free to change your mind, feel free to open yourself to new opportunities, the possibilities are endless and you will never be given more than you can handle.
Live, your life, enjoy the ups and downs, twists and turns of your journey and know that what may feel like U-turns are still a step forward.
Everything happens for a reason, even if you don’t always get to find out what that reason is.
First published in “The Magic Happens” Digital Magazine
Copyright © Sara Jane